Congratulations to Amanda at Whimsically Plucky who was the only person to guess that I was an F and also happened to get the other letters correct as well. The practical example we were given for determining T or F was: "If a friend calls and says she's having a crisis, what do you do?" T's will ask lots of questions and decide the best course of action. F's will rush over immediately. Last month, I was on the phone with my neighbor and friend when she dropped the phone crying out her toddler son's name. "Help me, Michelle," she said. I waited for a bit, uncertain what to do. "Call 911," she finally managed. I immediately did so, and gave all the information I could. And then what? I rushed right over - on foot - even though the tenth of a mile or so would be faster traveled by car. This is an F knee-jerk reaction.
BTW, the toddler had a seizure brought on by a fever. He's fine. You see how I have to reassure you? That's my F-ness, too.
My complete personality type is an INFP: Idealistic, loyal to their values and to people who are important to them. Want an external life that is congruent with their values. Curious, quick to see possibilities, can be catalysts for implementing ideas. Seek to understand people and to help them fulfill their potential. Adaptable, flexible, and accepting unless a value is threatened.
Interesting that only Amanda and Barbara got the P part right. I'm not a J, believe it or not. I was, in fact, the only P in my small group. The facilitator asked what we had done to get ready for the trip to Kansas. J's will strive to take care of every little thing well in advance. Now, I did have to do some prep work. One cannot just up and leave 6 children at home without making plans. However, when it came to things that affected only myself - for example: packing - I was not as premeditative. One woman in my group started packing a week before. I packed an hour before we left for the airport. My husband, who is my complete opposite (an ESTJ), also packed an hour before we left, because he had not had time beforehand. The difference? This really bugged him, but I cared not one whit. Did we leave things behind? Yes, but nothing truly important.
Learning about the Meyers-Briggs personalities with moderators who understand the types is very helpful. I learned much about my personality, my husband's personality, how we work together, and how we function under stress. Interesting to note that, when under stress, we actually tend to behave in ways characteristic of our opposite type. The thinking types will get overly emotional. Spontaneous people will cling to schedules. Based on the test taken at 10 pm the night before, I actually came up an ISTP, almost an ISTJ. My personality has not changed from my high school and college days when I was an INFP. Rather, the answers that swayed my results demonstrated the lingering effects of the deployment, our 900 mile move, and my current stresses about finishing the school year and dealing with new people, places and responsibilities.
Also, the results I got as a young adult were more valid than those I would get now anyway. Over time, we develop behaviors that are successful. We get burnt by Friend A's constant problems and learn to step back. We know if we don't make a list, we will over spend or not be able to have the dinner we want this week. Had I left my mother with 6 children and an empty fridge, I doubt she would be happy to ever help me out again.
So, Amanda, congratulations again on a good guess or an astute awareness. Email me your address so I can get some yummy chocolate out to you. Let me know if you have a preference for milk or dark.
And I'd love to hear everybody else's personality types.